Kate Casey grew up in a chaotic home. Her mother had four girls with three different men. Her stepfather was abusive, and her biological father never acknowledged her as his daughter.

Kate with her sister and cousin

Kate as a little girl
When she went to boarding school, Kate finally met other kids with families as complex as hers. She learned to ask questions, which led to some surprising — and at times unsettling — discoveries about her own family.
In this episode, Kate shares how her unstable upbringing made her want to provide the opposite for her five kids.

Kate with her husband and their five kids
Tune in to hear how Kate traded the bad kind of chaos for the good.
More about Kate
Kate’s question-asking skills come in handy as the host of Reality Life with Kate Casey, a daily podcast about unscripted television, where she gets people to open up about their personal lives.

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